Photo via Wikimedia Commons. I rarely fake orgasms because I don't believe someone who is fucking you poorly deserves that kind of payoff. More importantly, faking an orgasm is the biggest dick move you can pull on another girl. A faked orgasm during shit sex only serves to perpetuate a guy's misconception that he has "moves" when he doesn't, which he'll likely use on the next girl unlucky enough to fall into his bed. By faking an orgasm, you're inflicting a disservice to sisters everywhere.
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Sometimes — especially when you're not that experienced — it's hard to come to the realization that your main focus during sex should not be putting the guy at ease and making him feel like he did a good job Sexing You. I spent at least three years of my early twenties faking it regularly with the same guy. Who, as it turned out, knew I was faking the whole time. Truly the basis of a mutually-trustworthy relationship, wouldn't you say? Not only has porn has instilled a certain expectation that penetrative sex can usually make most women come LOLOLOLOL , but even guys who aren't necessarily silly enough to buy into that think there is a surefire recipe for female orgasm — like woman-on-top or oral sex beforehand. And sure, this works often! But sometimes it doesn't.
Don't have an account yet? Get the most out of your experience with a personalized all-access pass to everything local on events, music, restaurants, news and more. I love that we live in a country that's sexually open enough -- not as much as some European countries, but that's another list for another time -- to allow for public education on how to have and give orgasms.
In faking it, we teach men that they are so good at jackhammering in missionary position that they can make us come with rapid thrusts alone. So yeah, someone has probably faked an orgasm with you. Nothing kills a boner in any gender like being forced to the finish line. So make out! Eat her out!